Summer shorties

Feels good outside. I wasn’t awash in sweat before beginning my run this morning, a nice reprieve from summer beatings.

My nephew is nearing the home stretch after months of cancer treatment. This is a second cancer, different from a recurrence. He’s recovering from surgery with four more rounds of chemo to go. Everything falls to the periphery when a loved one is very sick, but things are looking up.

I made the mistake of assuming books might be a good distraction. Chemo does a number not just on the body but the ability to concentrate. Ditto for his sleepless loved ones. Short stuff is better.

Along with shorter runs and shorter hikes due to a mostly toasty summer, I’m appreciating shorter yoga classes (Yoga with Adriene) and shorter books, movies and shows. Even a short tree is getting love and water and just the right amount of sunshine.

My dad gave me a bonsai tree in May and it’s still alive. At some point when I was in high school, someone got it into the family’s head that I LOVE bonsai trees. And so all my life I’ve been given bonsai trees, kits with planters and tiny scissors to shape my own bonsai masterpiece and many books. My trees all died until this one. It comes with me when we leave town, along with our pots of bell peppers, mint and basil. It’s a full car with little room for the must-haves: hiking boots, running shoes and camping equipment. And bear spray, of course.

Not at all related, but I have a long list of summery recipes bookmarked in cookbooks and on my laptop. Aspirational cooking. They all have too many steps or cram 10 steps into one. Aside from one divine batch of kale pesto, this summer’s cooking is almost nonexistent. My niece noticed – All you eat is tomatoes? Not quite, but good tomatoes are the star of every meal. A highlight of my summer was picking warm cherry tomatoes with my little buddies. Only a few made it into the salad.

We also finally got to watch the Perseid meteor shower together. Raj and I usually go camping when the shower is at its peak, forgetting shaded campsites, while lovely by day, obscure the night sky. We end up just seeing what we can through scraps of sky, half distracted by every snapping twig in the woods. Not this year. This year we all laid on lounge chairs in my sister’s fenced backyard in the Poconos with a wide open sky on display and a thermos of hot cocoa to keep us awake. The girls were sleepy and impatient but they got a kick seeing Mars and went all giddy when they caught their first meteor.

My nephew is home. We’re not visiting because his immune system is too vulnerable, but he’s on my mind all the time. He’s the wish I make on shooting stars, when we drive over railroad tracks and when a lady bug landed on my finger. Hoping for no more cancer beats the rhyme we used to sing: Ladybug, Ladybug, fly away home. Your house is on fire and your children are alone. Superstitious habits won’t destroy cancer, but like my Grandma said when she gave us all Jesus pillows, it can’t hurt.

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Lost on the Appalachian Trail

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Saturday was to be cloudy with temperatures around the 60’s, according to my bad intel. Perfect weather for a 5-mile hike to Popolopen Torne, a memorial to fallen soldiers. Out early and back at the car by noon was the plan. Maybe grab an iced coffee in Cold Spring and read by the river. Doesn’t that sound like a nice Saturday? I thought so.

We were warned this trail is difficult to follow. Good thing we laugh in the faces of considerate, far more experienced hikers. Clearly they didn’t realize we are natural navigators, readers of the stars and stuff. Navigators in-training. Wannabes who plan to crack our Natural Navigator book open any day now. Until then we’ll just go ahead and forget the map. That’ll show ’em. Ha ha, suckers.

Most directions we read suggested starting at the trailhead in the Fort Montgomery lot, up some nice stone steps to what I can only imagine is a most lovely trail. Why would we start out the peaceful way when we can walk along a busy road and make a mad dash across 9W? Soon our three red dots appeared on a stone, beckoning us from the road into the woods along an overgrown trail.

If you’ve ever longed to journey through the land of spider webs and ticks this is the trail for you. On paper, this trail sounds idyllic, guiding you along burbling Popolopen Creek past Hell Hole. Yeah, Hell Hole is quite nice.

What, wait?

Hush or you won’t hear the revving motorcycles and endless whisper of traffic racing down Route 6. Physically, we were uncomfortable on this stretch. It was hot, buggy and hard to follow surprise, surprise. Mentally, I was working through some things. We love hiking in woodsy mountainous bear country so I figured we were bound to see bears sometimes. It wasn’t until Virginia when Raj said That’s a bear and we stood there momentarily frozen as it huffed from a few yards away that I realized I never actually believed we’d encounter one.

If you’re not working through the bear fear, this is a peaceful stretch of trail despite major roads nearby. You pass some rock formations, and the creek and birds supply a comforting soundtrack. Here’s where we crossed the creek over a narrow concrete bridge. This photo is less blurry if you shake your head while looking at it.

On foot, this trail lived up to its reputation. Harder to follow than Gravity’s Rainbow. And after a bit it didn’t quite match up with the directions. But it matched enough. They said the trail turned off at a gravel road. After a while we did come across a gravel road. The directions didn’t mention the shooting range so that was a fun surprise. Then they said we’d have to pass under a guardrail. We followed the road, went over an overpass and finally saw that the trail continued beyond a guardrail.

Phew. For a crazy second I suspected we might have been a little lost. Good thing I didn’t voice these suspicions to my hiking buddy. Good thing I have a natural knack for navigation.

Next the directions said to ascend for, oh, 15 minutes. Then we’d be at the top. The memorial. When researching this trail, the consensus indicated this would be a steep but brief scramble to the top. Sounded fun. We didn’t see much elevation ahead of us at first. Then the trail meandered up some rocks. We stepped up wondering why people would scramble such a gentle ascent. People are strange, that’s why. After a while the trail descended and we thought hmm, this is interesting. I wisely supposed we’d walked over the top past the memorial and exposed overlook without noticing. Next, the directions said we’d hit a kiosk in another 15 minutes. Let’s keep our eyes peeled for the kiosk. Wouldn’t want to miss it and get lost or anything.

We continued, sipped down our water supply. By now we know what it feels like to hike 5 miles and it was feeling like we’d hiked 5 miles, but sometimes the heat slows us down and makes a mile feel like much more. We continued, thinking it might be time to eat some lunch. Let’s eat lunch at the lake. That sounds nice. Oh yeah, there was supposed to be a lake.

The trail we were on converged with the Appalachian Trail. Hiking any length of the AT feels like you’re a part of something essential. So no complaining, but we were surprised the directions didn’t mention the AT. We said hello to many thru hikers. Apparently there are 5000 thru hikers on the AT now, according to one couple. We chatted with a few about everything but what we should’ve been asking.

Where are we?

Finally we asked a day hiker, figuring he was local. We couldn’t have asked a better person. This man informed us we were hiking south on the Appalachian Trail about 6 miles from the Torne memorial. It was noon and we were definately not reading by the Hudson river, sipping on an iced coffee. We’d been on the trail for 4 hours. Looking at the map, we realized we missed the very first turnoff where we were supposed to leave the red trail behind. We’d been walking the wrong way for about 3 hours and 45 minutes.

Come with me and I’ll drive you to your car, he said after knowing us for 30 seconds.

Kinder words have never been spoken. This generous man saved our day. Rather than backtracking for miles and miles and miles on that same neglected buggy trail, we hiked a shady stretch of the AT past blooming mountain laurel and vibrant ferns. We ate lunch together on his special rock overlooking Bear Mountain.

We joined him on the remaining few miles of his hike, talking about books, national parks and our shared home state, New Jersey. He told us about his work with SUWA, South Utah’s Wilderness Alliance, and their efforts to save Big Ears and the Grand Staircase-Escalante from President Bozo. We had a good time on a beautiful bite of the AT and made a friend. I thought trail magic was for thru hikers, but on this day the Appalachian Trail led us to exactly who we needed even though we had no clue we were in need. Okay, we had a lot of clues but we still didn’t know.

Next time I’ll bring the map. Hey, that’s a good idea.

Zion National Park – Observation Point and The Narrows

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Today’s high in Zion National Park will be around 100 degrees. That’s about 25 degrees hotter than when we were there in April and our only concern was avoiding sunburn. I’m amazed that hundreds of thousands of people manage to hike and climb these canyons in the summer heat. Also very jealous.

Southern Utah’s rugged landscape is unlike any place I’ve ever been. There’s so much beauty everywhere it’s ridiculous. I forgive them their black bears, rattlesnakes and mountain lions (only because we didn’t encounter any).

Wouldn’t you love to wake up here?

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We had 2 days in Zion and arrived excited to hike every single trail or at least as far as our feet could take us. The Narrows, a river hike through the narrowest stretch of the canyon, was closed on day 1 due to heavy rain the previous day.

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My favorite section was the stretch through Echo Canyon. Passing through feels like you’ve wandered into another world and you don’t want to leave. Too soon, the trail puts your legs to work over countless switchbacks with endless views. Linger in the canyon for a bit.

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This was our reward after 4 strenuous miles and 2300 feet of elevation gain. Not a bad lunch spot so long as you’re able to fend off squirrels with no respect for personal space.

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There’s Angel’s Landing down below.

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I recommend this hike if you get an early start and aren’t in any kind of rush. Bring way more water than you think you’ll need. Wear lots of sun screen and a hat.

The Narrows was open on day 2. A ranger told us they have to close it for 24 hours once the water reaches a certain level as flash floods are a threat. Apparently flash floods are always possible, though much more so during and after rain.

That said, the Narrows is a cool hike. We started around 9 am and thought it was maybe noon when we made it back to the shuttle stop. Nope. Try 4 pm. This was our day and we loved it. There was no place else in the world I wanted to be.

v1.jpgThe Virgin River is Zion Canyon’s primary source of erosion. It has millions of years of epic carving experience, with the help of a rock avalanche, and it continues to carve. You get to hike in this river, feel it, hear it. See what it’s done and where it takes you.

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A few hours in we reached a side canyon. The river goes on and on but you have to turn around at some point. The current was with us going back. I assumed this would make it easier, but the slippery rocks and rushing water knocked me on my bum a few times.

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Having never worn neoprene socks before, I didn’t know my feet would magically feel wet the whole time. Swishing around in cool water wet. I decided the price of waterlogged feet was worth the hike, until the hike was over and then I regretted that decision and dreaded taking off the socks. I fully expected to find squishy wrinkled scary unrecognizable pruney  flesh where my feet should be. Happy to report I still have feet. The rented gear kept us totally dry.

It was a dream to hike in Zion. Aside from all of the obvious reasons I didn’t think about bears one time. As with our Acadia trip, I told myself there were no bears in Zion. As with Acadia, there are black bears in Zion. I lied and happily believed the lie.

I was hoping to see bighorn sheep and we did. One morning there they were making their way down to cross the road. Out for a morning hike.

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Gettysburg

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The thing about going to Gettysburg is when you come back people ask Did you have a good time in Gettysburg? And it feels so wrong to say yes because it’s Gettysburg, site of the bloodiest battle of the Civil War. So instead of answering I dribble coffee on my dress. Say, Oh, man. And walk away to accentuate the brown spots with larger wet spots. g1.jpgWe checked into a motel on Emmitsburg Road on a spring day. While not technically in Gettysburg many of the affordable places on this road are less than 5 miles from the battlefields. The places in town looked nice, but cost much more. Our motel was fine. We’ve learned to embrace the serial killer hunting ground vibe.

Not knowing what to expect, Raj brought along a few books to guide us: Weird Civil War and Gettysburg: A Guided Tour Through History. The second book elaborated on each of the 16 stops along the 24-mile chronological, self-guided auto tour. First we stopped in the visitor center to grab a map and stamp our National Parks passport, as all the coolest peeps do.

 

 

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Pickett’s Charge

The forecast called for an afternoon sprinkle. Clouds moved in just as we parked at the first stop. Lightning illuminated the dark skies as we pulled into the second stop. It rained off and on for the rest of the day. Gettysburg is not a place to complain about rain when you think about the wet, humid conditions so many men fought and died in. Our first day’s stops focused on the Confederate side, including the site of Pickett’s Charge. The rain slowed as we walked a path where General Lee met what remained of his troops after the devastating loss.

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Walking along Lee’s path, we looked back and saw a double rainbow.

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We usually prefer to wander new places on our own, but there were so many ghost tours in town at night and everyone on them looked mesmerized and happy. We drank the punch. Expectations were low, but they weren’t low enough. Highlights of our tour included petting a greyhound belonging to a fellow sucker and waiting in the rain for 20 minutes.

Maybe some tours don’t suck.

On our way to the car we stopped at a fence bordering Gettysburg National Cemetery. I busied myself complaining about the tour while Raj looked out and saw someone walking inside. He took a picture but the person he saw was gone. The only possible explanation is paranormal. He totally saw a ghost and not a late night sneaker-inner.g6.jpgWe started our next day with a short hike up Big Round Top.

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Turkey vultures?

Then over to the Breastworks

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on Little Round Top.

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Down to the Devil’s Den.

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A sharpshooter spot facing Little Round Top

It’s strange. The Devil’s Den boulders seem to bring out the climber in every visitor. You want to play by day and wonder about the ghosts at night. Considering the death toll here, the name is fitting, though it preceded the Civil War. We climbed up and ate a sandwich, taking it in while thinking if there are ghosts in Gettysburg they must be here.

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From April-November the park stays open till 10 pm. This gives you enough time to grab a cider and eat then return to what many experts? claim is one of the most active paranormal places. A handful of people were setting up tripods and speaking into recorders when we arrived back at Devil’s Den. I am home to both a skeptic and a believer (the believer is more fun). Believer asked permission to take some more pictures while skeptic looked out for snakes and other fun critters. Then I got sad for the soldiers and their families. So much of what you take in during a day here doesn’t sink in until it gets dark.g5.jpgA full moon lit up the night like a bright bulb powered by electricity, which would soon be a distant memory. Back at the murder motel, we were confused when none of the lights in the room turned on. No water either. A power outage adds all sorts of excitement to a trip. You get to fumble in the dark for your toiletries. You get to drive to a roadside rest room so you can brush your teeth and wash a bit before reluctantly driving back to the tune of who’s-idea-was-it-to-stay-here. Mine. Did I mention we were the motel’s only guests?

Power came back on at 3:37 am. I know because every light in the room flashed on, the minifridge rumbled back to life and the sink, which we must’ve left on in the confusing darkness, turned on full blast. Not a disturbing way to be ripped from sleep at all.g6.jpg

Two days was the perfect amount of time for us in Gettysburg. This was my first visit to a battlefield. I’m not sure how to sum up the experience of immersing myself in Civil War history other than to say I won’t forget it.

 

“That’s a bear”

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Tomorrow’s free comic book day.  Tomorrow could be free punch me in the face day and I’d be alright with that. We’ve made it back from Shenandoah National Park having faced my biggest fear. No matter what happens for the rest of the week, at least I’m not currently being followed by a black bear.

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Now we have a story to tell. This was what my hiking buddy said afterwards. As though there was a shortage on stories and I needed to fear for my life to round things out. Yippee. Would you like to hear about the time I valiantly melted into a puddle of please-don’t-eat-me?

Bears are my biggest fear. I read about them all the time, thinking filling my head with knowledge will chip away at the big bad monsters and all that will remain will be respect for these intelligent wild animals. Maybe one day. I’m not there yet, not even close.

Shenandoah is about a 2-hour drive south of Gettysburg, PA. We thought it’d be fun to go there for some hiking after a weekend of immersing ourselves in Civil War history. A detour to Antietam first. We arrived in Shenandoah National Park around 2 pm eager to find a trail. A park ranger recommended the Fox Hollow/ Dickey Ridge trail located right across from the visitor center. The 5ish-mile loop sounded like a pleasant introduction to the park.  We grabbed our walking sticks and packs and headed out. This was our first time carrying bear spray. I figured it’d be nice to have the peace of mind. Just in case. Never gonna actually need it.

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Our route started us on the Fox Hollow trail. We passed a few people coming from the opposite direction. Asked them if they saw any bears. They laughed and said no but it’s a lovely trail. Lalala. About a mile in, we reach the old cemetery. More hikers pass from the opposite direction. We ask and they say they saw no bears. The trail, while more brown that I expected, was gentle and peaceful. Some elevation and brush to step over but nothing strenuous. It felt good to stretch our legs after driving. I was starting to calm down about potential bear sightings, but we continued talking loudly just in case.

About 1 3/4 miles into our hike Raj freezes and says the words I never ever want to hear on a hike.

That’s a bear.”

I vaguely recall the ranger saying something about 50 yards being a safe distance to observe bears from. I look way out into the distance but the bear is not in the distance. Our bear was maybe 5 yards away. In the moment, I do what I’ve always feared I would do. I forget every bear safety precaution. Raj reminds me not to run.

The bear spray is in my hand, safety off. I don’t remember grabbing it but there it is. We wave our arms and start shouting for the bear to go away. It darts a few feet parallel to the trail then darts back to where we first saw it. Raj wants to stand our ground but I’m too scared to continue on for another 3 1/2 miles. We back away slowly, careful not to turn our backs to the bear. Never run. Never make eye contact. Never turn our backs.

Hiking backwards is hard. We start to realize there are gaping holes in our bear knowledge. Aren’t they supposed to be shy and run away? How long do we stay backwards. Where’d it go? Gone? Nope. There it is. We continue to see and hear the bear a few yards off the trail. It seems to be following us. It’s slightly bigger than mid-size. We didn’t see any cubs. The elevation change and roots we’d so easily hiked only moments ago are not fun to trek over backwards with a bear in sight. Torture for me – most of the hikers we’ve met aren’t terrified of bears. Most hikers probably would’ve stood their ground then continued on their way.

This was our first bear encounter on a trail. I don’t know what we did wrong. Maybe we startled him even though we were talking loudly. We were listening for bears but bears don’t listen for us. This wild animal didn’t shyly scurry away. It didn’t hear our shouts, understand we were untasty humans and back off. It didn’t notice our retreat and return to its foraging. It followed us back to the cemetery, past the cemetery, around a bend. All along we either saw or heard it so we kept talk shouting. Kept walking backwards. Kept the bear spray at the ready. It would’ve been a fantastic time to run into other hikers, but it was just us and the bear almost the whole way back.

About a half mile from the trailhead I look down a slope and see another smaller bear about 50 yards away. This one observed us and went back to its log. Finally it felt safe enough to turn around and a few minutes later we were out of the woods.

 

Our first hike in Shenandoah was one to remember. In a total of about 3 miles we encountered 2 bears. The encounter was difficult because it lasted for so long. We knew we didn’t have far to backtrack, but we were walking backwards. Every time I saw or heard this bear my nerves went deeper into overdrive.

We were going to Hike Mary’s Rock or Old Rag the next morning but I was still too shaken. I saw a bear in every shadow. Instead we hiked a few miles along the Appalachian Trail and checked out the overlooks along Skyline Drive. We ran into some lone thru hikers on the AT. One stopped to chat with us for a bit. The day before, he hiked 38 miles. He’d started in March. Guess how many bears he saw… Zero. Not a single other hiker we talked to, most thru or section hikers, had seen a single bear. We saw four in two days. According to everyone we talked to, seeing so many was lucky.

I didn’t get any bear pictures. Too scared to even consider it that first day. We saw the other two bears from the relative safety of the car. The third was a cub heading towards the section of AT we’d just hiked. The fourth was massive and still. He looked so much like a black bear he had to be fake but then he ran away faster than I ever imagined something so large could possibly run.

While I was hoping our first bear encounter would lessen my fear – because I’d wave my arms and shout and the bear would run away – at least now I know the What Not To Dos are correct. We made it out unscathed. Raj kept his cool. I managed to function while facing my biggest fear. A few days have passed and my heart still races when I think about it.

We’re bound to cross trails with bears again. Now I know I can sort of deal with it. Maybe someday I’ll get over this block of bear fear and be one of those hikers hoping to see a bear from a distance. Probably not. Maybe one day I’ll go back to being one of those hikers who never see them at all.

Still it’s spring and I’m counting down the days till our next Catskills hike. Bear spray: check.

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The Last Days of Jack Sparks by Jason Arnopp

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Jason Arnopp’s The Last Days of Jack Sparks is a book you can judge by its minty delicious cover. The title is what you get – an account of the last days of Jack Sparks. The telling comes to you straight from the source: Jack Sparks.

I read this in 2 sittings because sometimes it’s nice to spend a fat chunk of time reading a great book by a swell writer. Also the pacing and spinning plot distracted me from a fever that wouldn’t go away, along with a dad who kept calling to ask if I’d “cooked it out yet” and sisters who kept calling to remind me not to take dad’s medical advice*. Fast is a good way to read this one. Then I handed it to my boyfriend for his commute and he took his sweet time. We both loved it, but he missed connecting some of the dots that make this book so clever and fun. I recommend full surrender. Keep reading. Dirty dishes can wait.

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Fresh out of rehab and riding the success of his first three pop books “Jack Sparks on a Pogo Stick” “Jack Sparks on Gangs” and “Jack Sparks on Drugs”, social media addict Jack Sparks begins what will surely be his next big hit. In “Jack Sparks on the Supernatural”, Jack Sparks will completely debunk all things supernatural beginning with a demon, naturally. And in case you haven’t guessed, Jack Sparks likes being Jack Sparks.

It’s hard to say where the story begins. Work on the supernatural book starts in a remote church in Italy during the exorcism of a young girl. For some reason the priest allowed Jack Sparks to observe quietly from a pew in the back. Jack Sparks being Jack Sparks, he doesn’t stay quiet. He laughs, mocking the demon’s big scary moment. Things get messy.

As with Paul Tremblay’s Head Full of Ghosts, I almost missed out on this book after hearing it was sort of about a possession, assuming it was another Holy back bends, What’s coming out of her mouth? kind of storyIt’s not like that. Jack is firm in his stated premise that when it comes to the supernatural people are either deceiving or being deceived. Sure there’s a third possibility, but no way. No way is there more to our existence than lying or being lied to, and racking up as many followers as possible while doing it.

The third possibility is an uncomfortable door to open. For Jack, it’s not an option. Can you question faith if you never had it or pretended not to have it? And how can you think about these things when there’s Twitter to update and Instagram and how many new followers did he just get? Ooh shiny things with buttons and the certainty that the whole world is hanging on his every word because he has so many followers.

This is the first novel I’ve read that incorporates social media in a way that’s not annoying. It’s a huge part of Jack’s existence, his success and his end. Jack’s obsession with his online presence underscores his already apparent narcissism but it also moves the plot forward. Arnopp never tries to convince us that Jack is best friend material. He’s an arrogant self absorbed ass feeding on the empty glow of likes and follows. He’s completely aware that he’s a product of his time. That self awareness eventually makes his self destruction compelling, adding heft to a book that doesn’t need it, but maybe some of its readers do.

Jack is doomed and doesn’t know it. We know the end yet still we’re racing to catch up, to puzzle out the mysteries because it’s human nature. As it’s human nature to bury our most terrifying experience so deep that it becomes a powerful part of we are.

I haven’t read many horror novels that are actually scary. I like the ones that take the mind to dark places and leave you there to work your own way out. I love when the creeps are unexpected and fleeting. Jack Sparks is entertaining throughout with several chilling moments and a bang end that is the very opposite of a twist. No closure unless you think about it and the more you think about it the more disturbing it gets. Fun, fascinatingly disturbing, not dark and heavy I-feel-icky-about-about-the-world-and-just-need-to-lie-down-for-a-week disturbing. (Looking at you, Song of Kali.)

This is a fun, thrilling read. People who love horror will eat it up. People who enjoy thrillers, mysteries and milkshakes will love it, too.

*Don’t try to cook out a fever. Cooking out a fever can cause brain damage.

 

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Scream: Chilling Adventures in the Science of Fear by Margee Kerr

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I loved everything about Margee Kerr’s Scream: Chilling Adventures in the Science of Fear. Plus the title kept putting the Misfits in my head. Specifically, Scream!. Before starting every chapter I absolutely had to enjoy the video directed by George Romero. There are worse urges.

As a sociologist working at Pittsburgh’s ScareHouse, a haunted attraction many consider among the best in the U.S., Kerr studies a kind of fear. I don’t know the technical term, let’s call it fun fear. The kind you experience when you sign up, wait in line, drive to a theme park. This is where she starts us. Her research on the benefits of fear and it’s potential application goes much deeper than Weeee!.

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The book is divided into four sections: Physical Thrills, Psychological Chills, Real Fears and Bringing It Home. Kerr takes us on a ghost hunt at Eastern State Penitentiary, to the edge of a skyscraper in Canada, from roller coasters, haunted houses and the suicide forest in Japan, to a dodgy street in Bogota and a dream job research lab. She details each adventure along the way, contextualizing and contrasting the physiological effects of, for example, 2-minute thrill rides versus walking around the edge of a skyscraper for an hour.

The science behind sensations and intuitive responses is fascinating. Thrill seekers will appreciate learning that the stomach-dropping feeling you get on roller coasters is no illusion. It really does sort of drop. Apparently the stomach is so loosey-goosey that gravity affects it separately. When we get tunnel vision and temporary loss of hearing, that’s our primal instincts kicking in. The body is hard-wired for survival. Doing scary things like throwing ourselves out of a plane goes against every natural instinct. Maybe we get paralyzed with fear because those primal instincts don’t know about parachutes. In any case, doing scary things opens a door to euphoria and profound personal growth, which Kerr demonstrates throughout.

Kerr’s account of her adventure on the top of Toronto’s CN Tower is surprisingly gripping. My first impression was that this is one of many (pricey) interactive attractions contrived to cash in on the public’s growing appetite for not-so-cheap thrills and look-at-me-doing-something-Dangerous selfies. EdgeWalk  entails walking on a metal grate 1,467 ft from the ground, performing “stunts” like leaning over the edge. She reconstructs the experience of how she felt at each progression and what it was like to work through unexpected terror while also explaining the science behind her reactions and why she left feeling empowered. 

Understanding more about fear doesn’t mean you won’t get scared anymore. Kerr shares feelings of dread and terror in lucid detail.  A heightened emotional state enables us to remember things vividly. That’s why memories of scary experiences are so powerful. Kerr touches on post traumatic stress and potential ways to help people suffering from PTSD by re-associating some memories with more positive fear experiences.

My favorite parts were her Japan adventures. Japan should export their haunted houses. Or scooch closer. Better yet, build bullet planes so the flight from NYC would be the length of a nice nap. 

The haunted houses in Japan take a nuanced, artful approach to stimulating all of the senses with headphones, things you have to touch, and not worrying so much about scaring people forward. Imagine walking through a haunted house with a buddy and you’re both wearing headphones and maybe you’re not hearing the same thing. Maybe you two have a completely different experience. Maybe you have flashlights to find your way through the dark, multiple doors you have to choose from, a task you must perform.

My personal bubble is massive so a haunted house with a mission or narrative puzzle sounds ideal. The most memorable haunted house I went to was horror movie themed. The first room was small, quiet and barely lit. There was a girl sitting up in a bed, disturbed and very gross. The bed occupied the entire room so to get through you had to climb over the bed, over her legs. On the other side of the bed was a door to a dark room with a lot of hanging barely lit bodies you had to find your way around. Part way through some of the bodies started to move. A walkway over squishy things took you back to Nancy running up the marshmallow stairs in Nightmare on Elm Street. I loved the physicality and use of haunt actors to animate the scenes without the cheesiness of direct address, but we still felt like cattle being herded through as quickly as possible.

You’ll have to wait until the end for a glimpse of The Basement, the result of Kerr’s ongoing collaboration with ScareHouse. The Basement is an “interactive theater experience” scientifically designed to take people to psychologically dark places AND leave them feeling great after. As with other professional attractions labeled “extreme”, The Basement has a safe word so people can end the experience whenever they want to.

Scream offers something for runners, too. Near the end the author has herself tested at a research facility and learns she uses the same mental technique many ultra runners intuitively use to grit through long distances. Its not that they don’t feel the pain and stress of 50+ miles. Some tell themselves it doesn’t hurt or even that it feels good. Detaching themselves, re-framing what they’re feeling or simply focusing on something else minimizes the pain or at least the perception of pain, which is kind of the same thing. Maybe this why so many runners prefer the outdoors with its endless array of external diversions.

I can’t think of anyone who wouldn’t gain something by reading this book. Fear is something every one of us experience so why not learn more about it? The author leaves her readers in launch mode, encouraging them to do more things that scare them. Out of context do something that scares you sounds like a flimsy affirmation. Coming from Margee Kerr, it’s just good advice.

 

 

What? This old thing?

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I’m breaking in a new computer and the smooth functionality feels so wrong, a betrayal to the machine I bought eleven years ago after living on cereal for a few weeks. Bowl after bowl of crunchy corn flakes does not a well balanced diet make. Fancy past me even splurged on a laptop bag with a red velvety interior for extra protection as we rode the subway to meetings in loud cafes with tiny tables and massive muffins.

My 11-year-old laptop still works. Slowly. It works for my purposes. I turn it on and in 5 minutes it’s ready for action. Now it’s sitting cold on the dining table where I work. The old beside the new as I delay transferring files or backing them up. Once I close the lid it may never show an image again. The hinges broke 5 years ago and with them the display connection loosened and portability became a two-person event. One of us moves the stack of books needed to support the open screen while the other gently lifts the aging laptop, careful to hold the screen at just the right downward angle. Forget traveling with it.

Most keys stick. None of the arrow keys work. The volume button is like one of those false drawers by the kitchen sink. Most of the letter characters on the keyboard are gone; I don’t type lightly.

The letters I use the most, according to the blank keys:

A E W T I O S H L C N M B R U D V

The Q Y P F G J Z X are only partially faded.

Beside the keyboard is a little pink sticker of a porcupine holding a heart. I found this sticker stuck to the seat of my pants after a day with my nieces and taped it where I’d see it all the time every day. Beside the porcupine is an old cutout of a Wonder Woman comic there so long I forget why. The tape over these stickers is sort of melded over the plastic. With tweezers I’m slowly working them off, trying to keep them whole.

The battery and left click on the touch pad are also false drawers. The battery is moot anyway considering the computer cannot be moved without choreography and props. Figuring out workarounds for each new development in my laptop’s failing health, rather than shopping for a replacement or expensive repairs, revived stubborn habits created in my scrappy student days and refined over years without health insurance. Who needs a doctor when you have a cabinet full of healing herbs and spices? Not me. Poultice anyone?

My old laptop features excellent security. There’s much to be said for being the only person who knows the amount of pressure and angle of cord needed to turn it on. Robbers may break in but they won’t be able to check their email. Not on my computer. And they probably wouldn’t steal it to boot.

I’m attached to the old and smitten with the new. We’re in a love triangle minus the drama, love and smoldering looks. We’re a triangle. Soon Raj will get tired of me squishing next to him at dinner and old reliable-for-my-purposes will have to go or be moved to the backroom just in case the new one breaks or I suddenly have need of two. Two sounds nice. Lots of people have two cars, two homes, two kids. Why can’t I have two computers? The senior isn’t taking up much space. Soon it’ll be vintage…

For now, both have a strip of pink post-it paper taped over the camera because nobody’s going to Ratter me (fun movie, by the way). The old one holds photos and documents from the last eleven years of my life. The new one isn’t cloaked in dust because I can close the screen.

Change is good. Changing the tilt of the screen is incredible. It took me but a second to write this sentence though it includes all my favorite sticky, worn away letters.

Happy new year. Cheers to the old year.

 

Springsteen – how much do you love him?

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A chunk of yesterday vanished as I madly combed the universe for affordable seats to Bruce Springsteen’s extended Broadway extravaganza, verified fan code I’ve been hoping to get for months in hand. My dad’s love for Bruce Springsteen predates my existence. They’re from the same nook of New Jersey. Springsteen is special. When I first heard about this show it sounded like it’d be such a treat for him. Prior to receiving my special code text and sinking into the Ticketmaster void, my definition of an “affordable” price to a live performance with a super high production value had 2 digits. How quaint. Two digits would barely cover Ticketmaster’s processing fees.

But what’s money when you harbor a financial lunatic inside you?

Years ago, Raj and I set out on one of many apartment hunts. The journey taught me how much I know about budgeting under pressure. Back then we lived in a nightmare with a busted front door that didn’t lock. I nailed the fire escape window shut after some dude squeaked open the window and started climbing in while I was working from home, about two feet away. The lopsided floors imbued each sleepy morning with confused panic. Are we tipping over?

Apartment hunting in Brooklyn on a normal budget is fun if you enjoy exploring the very edges of livability. One real estate agent with slick hair found his bliss by showing us places further and further beyond our budget. By the end of the day, we’re on the balcony of a duplex with a lovely view of Greenwood Cemetery. Raj went back to searching Craigslist while I arranged pretend patio furniture on our magical balcony because I can work three jobs. I want to work three jobs. Anything for you, Duplex with radiant floor heating.

Yesterday, that lunatic returned. In a matter of seconds, getting my dad tickets to see Bruce Springsteen morphed from a wouldn’t-that-be-fun to my life’s mission. The reason for my existence. No $75 tickets? So began the hunt. No $200 seats left on any date? And up and up jumped my budget odometer. Ah, a $400 seat way off to the side and a $300 ticket way up there for his friend. They can wave to each other and everything. Score! What a steal!

To buy or not to buy? I put those seats in my cart with 5 Ticketmaster minutes to decide. How did I go from willing to splurge on 2 tickets for a dream total of $150-ish+fees to possibly parting with $700+fees for my dad’s only chance to be happy ever. To buy or not to buy? Of course none of my sisters answered their phones to advise while the clock counted down.

King Lear asked his daughters How much do you love me? It didn’t go well. When we were kids the answer was an easy This much with arms wide. That was enough. That’s still enough. I know that. Lunatic doesn’t.

Because it’s Bruce Springsteen and it’s for my dad. He hasn’t seen Springsteen play since before he was a dad, lifeguard by day and hanging around The Saint at night, chatting with Clarence Clemons in the parking lot after shows, telling us what a nice guy he was anytime we heard that sweet saxophone so many years later. The need to put my dad in a seat at this show swelled. Finally, the same part of me that didn’t want to work three jobs to live in a duplex snapped to attention with a simple suggestion to ask if he even wanted to go. I called my dad fully expecting an excited Yes and you were always my favorite.

What I got was Nah. I don’t want to go all they way up there for that.

So now I’m clear. A real show in New Jersey with the full band is a cranky yes. Absolutely. Sitting in a lousy seat in a Broadway theater listening to stories and songs about the working class for $400 is a don’t you dare pay that much money.

The effort wasn’t fruitless. I finally harassed my dad into revealing something he actually does want for Christmas. A fruit cake. He loves fruit cakes. The kind he grew up with – dark and fruity with lots of booze. A good one, he felt the need to specify, meaning please don’t bake it yourself. I won’t. I’m still hearing about a cake I baked him in the 90’s. It looked like a cake. Smelled like lasagna and tasted like chocolaty bologna due to a mix-up in the adding savory seasoned oil department. So begins a new hunt.